Their Story

The Long Way to the Same Small Corner

Mallory McLeish and Kayle Hittle, a North Idaho love story.

Same Small Corner of North Idaho

For years, Mallory and Kayle lived inside the same small radius of North Idaho without ever quite meeting. She grew up in Naples, in the same house she'd been in since she was two. He grew up in Moyie, around a sprawling Mennonite family, working alongside his brothers from the time he was old enough to swing a hammer. The towns were not far apart. The people were not strangers to each other. And yet, somehow, for years their paths almost crossed without actually crossing.

Mallory's neighbor was one of Kayle's good friends. Kayle was at that friend's house all the time, and Mallory was there nearly every week. He even remembers her goats. There was probably a stretch where the two of them were within a few hundred feet of each other on more than one summer afternoon, doing nothing more remarkable than what young people in that corner of Idaho do: walking the fence line, picking wildflowers, drifting home before the bugs came out.

They didn't know they were waiting for each other yet. But looking back now, the long slow build feels almost inevitable.

The Girl From Naples

Mallory was a McLeish kid, the middle of three siblings, raised in a family where the doors got opened to the outside every morning and stayed that way until the porch lights came on. Her playhouse was where she spent her summers. Her parents both worked hard, and both showed up to every game, every event, every season. Boring, she calls it, in the way that only somebody who was truly loved can use that word. "It was very consistent. They were at every single volleyball game. Dad would come straight from work. You just couldn't miss him."

Mallory outside in the winter snow with her dog
Naples, Idaho. The doors stayed open until the porch lights came on.

When she was five, her cousin Stryder was born and had to be life flighted to Sacred Heart. He spent time in the NICU, and something about that moment, the nurses moving through it, the difference they made for her aunt and uncle, planted a seed in her. From age five onward, Mallory wanted to be a nurse. She kept waiting for the feeling to fade. It never did.

She moved through Naples Elementary, then middle school, then high school, graduating in 2021. She played volleyball, helped run stats for the wrestling team, took photographs for the FFA chapter. After high school she moved to Lewiston for a year of college, didn't love how flat and hot it was, and came home. Now she works at Cornerstone Urgent Care and chips away at her nursing degree online. Once she has her license, she wants to do work that meets people on their hardest days.

The Boy From Moyie

Kayle's childhood was lakes and family. His grandpa loved the water, and that love passed down. Lake Pend Oreille, Coeur d'Alene, weekends in boats with whichever cousins and aunts and uncles were free. He went through eighth grade at the Mennonite school, the way most of the kids in his community did, and then started working at fourteen alongside his older brother. By the time he was eighteen he'd been working construction for years. By the time he was nineteen, his oldest brother had started a roofing company and Kayle had become his right hand.

He is the youngest of four. Two older brothers, an older sister, and him. "My older brothers maybe would have called me spoiled," he says, before catching himself. "I feel like all the brothers do, probably."

Anyone who knows the family will tell you the same thing about him. "Kayle, he's the good one." He is quiet around people he doesn't know, which can fool a first time observer into thinking he is reserved. He is not reserved. He is just careful with his words. When he does speak, it is usually to ask if he can help, or to make a joke at his own expense, or to tell whoever he loves how much he loves them.

The Coffee Shop and the Hand Turkeys

Mallory was working at the Bread Basket, the coffee shop tucked beside the bakery in town. Kayle and his buddies had taken to coming in two or three times a day. The couches in the corner were a hangout spot. Sometimes they would stay until closing. Sometimes Mallory would say, "I'll buy you a drink if you mop the floor," and Kayle would be on his feet before the sentence finished. He was always the first one to volunteer.

Mallory at the coffee shop
Two or three times a day at the Bread Basket.

One slow afternoon, bored, Mallory started making hand turkeys, the kind where you trace your fingers and add a beak. She walked one over to Kayle. "You want to make a hand turkey?" That was the first time she ever texted him: a picture of a finished cartoon turkey. By the end of the run, there was a whole wall of hand turkeys at the Bread Basket, contributed by half the regulars.

Around that same stretch, a story made its way back to her through her dad. He called her in the middle of an afternoon nap and asked, "Do you know anybody who drives a blue Jeep?" Somebody had driven past the family's house on the county road and yelled out the window that they loved her. Mallory played innocent. The next time the Jeep boys came into the shop, she leveled them with a look. The shy friend in the group turned around and walked out. Nobody admitted anything.

It would be more than a year before Mallory found out it had been Kayle yelling that day. He has never quite lived it down.

There were other small things. A handful of wildflowers he picked on a mountain trip, stuck in a water bottle, that he handed to her in town on the way home one evening. He didn't think much of it. She kept thinking about it. That was more than six months before they ever went on a real date. He had been quietly making deposits in a bank account she didn't yet know existed.

The Night of the New Truck

For a long time Kayle drove a little red Mazda pickup. He still has it, parked at his folks' place, and he still loves it. But at some point he decided it was time for something bigger and more reliable, and he came home with a black pickup. He kept the Mazda. He just wanted something that could take a longer drive without complaint.

Mallory heard about the new truck and texted him. "Bring it by. I want to see it." That night she got in the passenger seat for the first time, and something shifted. They had been friends for going on two years. They had hung out around fires by the river, fished alongside their mutual friends, talked across rolled down windows in the Super One parking lot. They had never been alone.

They went on a drive. They talked. He took her home. The next night, they hung out again. And the next. There wasn't a single day after that one where they didn't see each other.

About two weeks in, Mallory looked at him and asked the question she'd been holding in her chest. "What do you tell people when they ask what's going on?"

"Tell them we're together," he said.

"So we're together?"

That was the closest they ever came to a defining the relationship conversation. They had been circling each other for so long that, once it tipped, neither one of them needed to be convinced. There was no awkward talking stage. There was friendship, and then there was this.

What Do You Tell People

The first kiss happened in the Super One parking lot. Of course it did. That parking lot is the exact middle point between the two houses, the natural meeting place, the spot where they could sit late at night and people watch and trade stories about their days. They liked to park toward the back of the lot. Not so far back it looked suspicious, but far enough that they could see what was going on.

Mallory had a feeling that night that it was about to happen. She had also decided that she was absolutely not going to make the first move. So she sat there. Kayle, by her account, looked at her for a while, got increasingly nervous, and finally just reached over and kissed her. Quick. Then pulled away.

"Wait a second," she said. And then she grabbed his face and kissed him back properly.

A week or so after that, Mallory was about to leave for a trip to Florida with her aunt. They met at Super One so she could pick up a few last things on her way to the airport. As she was walking back to her car, Kayle rolled down his window and told her, quietly, that he loved her.

She walked back over. "What did you say?"

He said it again.

She told him she loved him too, and then she got on her plane, and then she had about a week of long flights and Florida sunshine to think about what had just happened in a grocery store parking lot.

Mallory on her trip to Florida
Florida sunshine, and a week to think it through.

When she came home, two months into the relationship, Kayle's grandpa passed away. The funeral was where she met the whole extended family for the first time. The Hittles, the Mastres, the whole side of his family that fills a sanctuary on a Sunday morning, dozens and dozens of people who took her in immediately. By her count, once a few more grandkids are born, there will be more than a hundred cousins on her own side. The Hittle and Mastre side is its own constellation. Both families are enormous. Both made room.

The faith and tradition piece never had to be discussed in big terms. He grew up Mennonite. She grew up nearby. The values that built him, the steadiness, the work, the quiet care for whoever is in front of him, were already the values she had been hoping to find.

The Drive in the Valley

Within a couple of months of being together, Mallory was bringing up weddings. She admits she might have scared him a little. She is the older of the two, ready before he was ready, and she made no secret of it. She sent him photos of rings. She talked openly about what next summer might look like. Kayle, for his part, had already been thinking about it. He just wanted to do it his way.

He had his sister order the ring so Mallory wouldn't see the email on his phone. He drove to his sister's house to pick up the package and had to make up a story about working in her shop while he waited for delivery. The morning of the proposal, he asked Mallory's dad. He had already asked his own folks. He had told nobody else.

That afternoon they went for a drive. He kept saying his stomach didn't feel good. She watched him sweat through his shirt and start to look genuinely sick. He pulled the truck over on a straight stretch out in the valley, somewhere past the forest service building, with canola fields on either side. He laid his head on the steering wheel. His hands were clammy.

"Let me drive," Mallory said. "Let's switch."

She got out of the passenger side and walked around the front of the truck. When she came around to the driver's side, the door was open and Kayle was on one knee.

She started crying. Not the proposal crying she had always pictured. Real, confused crying. "I really thought you were sick," she kept saying. "I really thought you were sick."

She said yes. He recovered immediately.

The Decade They're Building Toward

The wedding is being held at her aunt Laree's house in June. The guest list runs over two hundred and fifty. Pulled pork sandwiches, salads brought by aunts on both sides, mini cheesecakes for dessert. There will be a song by Micah Fletcher called "The Look in Your Eyes" playing somewhere in the day. Most people in the room will have known one or the other of them their whole lives.

They have plans. Mallory will finish her nursing degree. Kayle will keep building the roofing business with his brother. They want four kids, give or take. They want a house they build themselves on a piece of land they pick out. They have a ten year plan and a habit of driving around just to look at houses and dream out loud about what theirs will look like someday.

Kayle is the kind of partner who notices what Mallory needs without being asked. When something has knocked the wind out of her, he sits with her and waits for her to be ready. He never makes her feel like an inconvenience. He has never raised his voice at her. He is, by her admission, her favorite person, and she has long since stopped trying to pretend otherwise.

She is the one who pulls him out of his quiet. He says he is not much of a talker. Around her, he talks. He tells her about his day. He listens to her hospital stories with full attention, even the gross ones, and he asks for more. He likes her job. He likes her brain. He likes the way she lights up.

When they talk about the future, they use the same words other people use. Best friend. Home. Together. Sixty years. The difference is, when Mallory says sixty years, she means it as a starting offer. "Sixty's not enough," she says. "I want that and then whatever comes after."

Same Small Corner, Different Story Now

A decade ago, in some unrecorded summer, they were probably within a stone's throw of each other on a back road in North Idaho. He was hanging out with his friend next door. She was at the same friend's house, or walking by with the goats, or laughing about something in the kitchen. Neither one of them knew the other was the answer to a question they hadn't started asking yet.

Now there is no question. Now there is a house they are slowly filling with furniture, a golden retriever named Nova who claims them both, a black pickup parked in the driveway that has more memories per square foot than most homes do. Now, every night ends with a good night instead of a goodbye.

The long way around brought them right to where they were always going.

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